Why Forgive and Forget?
What if there was nothing to forgive? It is much more empowering to realise that we are all doing the best with what we have. It will be a very freeing experience for you to come from a place of undestanding rather than one of forgiveness. So if there is nothing to forgive - rather something to understand - it lifts a weight. And without the weight you can fly.

It's not hard - it's just unfamiliar.
It doesn't seem like a big concept - but when you nut it out - it really is a very freeing idea. It opens up your mind to the idea that nothing is hard - that we are capable of everything - it just has to become more familiar. I like the idea of being in control - of seeing myself as capable. It's a little scary - but the fun kind of scary.